Now Playing: Episode #35 — The Art of War for Addiction & Relapse Prevention
This page hosts the full Strategic Recovery Podcast audio episode (2:02:11 duration) — a tactical reframe that treats addiction like asymmetric warfare, not a moral failure. You’ll learn how relapse is often patterned, scheduled, and beatable when you stop moralizing it and start mapping it. We translate Sun Tzu’s core principles into real-world recovery strategy: know the enemy, know yourself, win by changing terrain + timing, fortify your supply lines (sleep, nutrition, stress regulation), and align the full system through the 5 Pillars, 5 Phases, and the 12 Strategic Recovery Assessments™. The goal isn’t self-war — it’s victory through intelligence… until cravings lose their advantage.
⚔️ Win the war without fighting yourself — change the terrain, master the timing, and relapse becomes optional
Strategic Recovery Field Notes ⚔️
Strategic Recovery with Matt Finch — Episode 35 Show Notes
This episode reframes addiction as asymmetric warfare — not a moral failure — and gives you a repeatable strategic framework to win with intelligence: identify the enemy, know yourself, align the 5 Pillars, move through the 5 Phases, and personalize everything using the 12 Strategic Recovery Assessments™.
Use these notes as a field guide, not a checklist. Take what resonates. Leave what doesn’t. Your sovereignty comes first.
🧭 Quick Navigation
Strategy · Preparation · Victory Without Self-War
- 🛰️ Intro — “The War You Didn’t Know You Were In”
- 🧩 Part I — The Great Reframe
- 🎯 Part II — Know the Enemy
- 🧬 Part III — Know Yourself
- 📊 Part IV — The 12 Strategic Recovery Assessments™
- 🏛️ Part V — The 5 Pillars of Strategic Recovery™
- 🗺️ Part VI — The 5 Phases of Strategic Recovery™
- 🧭 Part VII — Terrain & Timing
- 💰 Part VIII — Recovery Capital
- 📜 Part IX — Sun Tzu’s Commandments for Recovery
- 🛡️ Part X — Relapse Prevention Protocol
- 🔥 Part XI — The Day the War Turned
- 🧘 Part XII — Integration
- 🏁 Part XIII — Closing Challenge
🛰️ Intro — “The War You Didn’t Know You Were In”
A craving doesn’t always shout — sometimes it whispers in your own voice. This opening frames relapse as patterned, scheduled, and beatable once you stop moralizing it and start mapping it.
- Core reframe: predictable enemies are beatable enemies.
- Key move: stop asking “What’s wrong with me?” and start asking “How does this operate?”
- Promise: intelligence + terrain + timing + supply lines = freedom without self-war.
🧩 Part I — The Great Reframe
Recovery isn’t willpower. Willpower is a short-term resource — addiction is a long campaign. This section dismantles mainstream “white-knuckle” recovery and introduces the Strategic Recovery Trinity: 5 Pillars, 5 Phases, 12 Assessments™.
- Behavior-only focus: removes the drug but doesn’t replace regulation.
- Shame disguised as accountability: dysregulates the nervous system and fuels relapse.
- Meds before repair: “software on a corrupted operating system.” Timing matters.
- Meetings without systems: community is vital, but it’s only one pillar.
- Spirituality without biology: spirit works through physiology, not instead of it.
🎯 Part II — Know the Enemy
If you misidentify the enemy, you can be sincere and still lose. This section defines addiction precisely, honors trauma-informed wisdom, then expands into the full coalition: biochemical, psychological, social, environmental, and spiritual fronts.
🔎 What Addiction Is
- Short-term relief → craving
- Long-term harm
- Persistence despite consequences
- Often trauma-driven coping
- Applies to substances and behaviors
🧭 Enemy Tactics
- Ambush (HALT: hungry, angry, lonely, tired)
- Propaganda (“just one,” “tomorrow”)
- False treaties (bargaining)
- Supply sabotage (sleep + stress)
- Terrain advantage (time/place/apps)
Core line: Fight one front, lose the war on the others.
🧬 Part III — Know Yourself
One-size-fits-all recovery often fails because it doesn’t give you reconnaissance — it gives you rules. Self-knowledge isn’t self-obsession; it’s intelligence. Relapse isn’t “random.” It’s unmapped.
- Recovery becomes winnable when you understand your wiring, thresholds, triggers, and strengths.
- Programs can unintentionally train failure by treating uniqueness as “resistance” instead of data.
- Strategic Recovery move: replace guessing with assessments and pattern-mapping.
📊 Part IV — The 12 Strategic Recovery Assessments™
Battlefield intelligence · Recon · Personalization
A) Nervous System & Sensitivity
- HSP Test
- Empath Test
- Holmes–Rahe Stress Test
Insight: overloaded systems crave escape.
B) Brain & Mood Typology
- Brain Type (SPECT-based)
- Mood Type (dopamine / serotonin / GABA / endorphins)
- High Sensation Seeking
Insight: cravings often = chemistry + wiring.
C) Motivation & Personality
- Four Tendencies
- Six Human Needs
Insight: command style matters — strategy must match identity.
D) Resources & Capacity
- Recovery Capital Scale
- Low Hormones Self-Test
- Exhausted Resource Assessment
Insight: addiction is often an outdated coping tool.
E) Purpose & Identity
- Dharma Archetype Quiz
Insight: purpose is relapse prevention at the identity level.
🏛️ Part V — The 5 Pillars of Strategic Recovery™
These are not steps — they are dimensions. Addiction persists when the pillars are misaligned; recovery becomes natural when they progressively align.
🔬 Biochemical
- Restore neurotransmitters
- Repair sleep & stress systems
- Reduce cravings biologically
💔 Psychological
- Release shame identity
- Heal trauma safely
- Rebuild emotional safety
🫂 Social
- Break isolation
- Build safe connection
- Learn boundaries
🏡 Environmental
- Your space shapes your state
- Your systems shape your success
- Reduce cues / increase friction
🔮 Spiritual
- Reconnect to meaning
- Remember who you are
- Purpose > escape
Core line: When the Pillars align, you stop fighting addiction — and start transcending it.
🗺️ Part VI — The 5 Phases of Strategic Recovery™
Timing matters. Doing the “right thing” in the wrong phase can create unnecessary suffering and relapse risk. These phases are a campaign map — not a moral test.
🧭 Phase 1 — Preparation
- Research, appointments, allies
- Environment reset
- War chest assembly
🧱 Phase 2 — Detoxification
- Secure the perimeter
- Support body/brain detox principles
- Hydration + calming + stabilization
🔧 Phase 3 — Repair (PAWS)
- Neurotransmitter & hormone restoration
- Sleep, nutrition, movement
- Meds after baseline repair (when possible)
🛣️ Phase 4 — Rewire
- Addiction highways fade
- Recovery highways strengthen
- Repetition > resistance
👑 Phase 5 — Transcend
- Identity alignment
- Meaning > escape
- Addiction loses relevance
🧭 Part VII — Terrain & Timing
Relapse usually happens in the setup. Terrain is everything shaping your nervous system before a craving appears: home, phone, schedule, routines, sensory load, and access. Timing is predictable — relapse follows rhythm.
- Terrain truth: late nights, hunger, isolation, exhaustion, and unstructured time are high-risk maps.
- Timing truth: cravings often show up in windows of vulnerability, not because you “want to relapse.”
- Core line: Change the terrain. Change the timing. Change the outcome.
💰 Part VIII — Recovery Capital
Recovery Capital is your personal wealth of healing power — the breadth and depth of internal and external resources you can draw on to initiate and sustain recovery. Everything is either a deposit or a withdrawal.
🌐 Breadth + Depth
- Breadth: range of supports across the whole life
- Depth: how embodied and reliable your supports are under pressure
- Resilience = wide menu + sturdy foundations
🧭 The 5 Pillars as Recovery Capital
- Physical / Biochemical
- Psychological
- Social
- Environmental
- Spiritual
“Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants.” — Epictetus
📜 Part IX — Sun Tzu’s Commandments for Recovery
- Know yourself, know the enemy. Intelligence ends shame.
- Win without fighting. Remove conditions where cravings thrive.
- Cravings lie. Treat bargaining as propaganda scripts.
- Attack systems, not self. You are the commander, not the battlefield.
- Choose battles wisely. Rest is strategy, not weakness.
- Speed matters. Early intervention wins wars fast.
Personal truth: once I had intelligence and supplies, I stopped losing.
🛡️ Part X — Relapse Prevention Protocol
Insight without execution is poetry. Recovery needs protocols that work under pressure: early detection, rapid response, and fortress routines for vulnerable terrain.
🚨 Early Warning Signs
- Sleep slips
- Nutrition gets sloppy
- Isolation increases
- Irritability rises
- “I’ll deal with it later” thinking
- Spiritual practices fade
Key: cravings are often the last flare, not the first sign.
⚡ Rapid Response + 🏰 Fortress Night
- Interrupt the loop with a physical state change
- Regulate the body (longer exhales)
- Deploy support immediately
- Fortify nights: low stimulation, predictable rituals, earlier sleep
Strategic truth: remove conditions where temptation thrives.
🔥 Part XI — The Day the War Turned
“I didn’t become perfect. I became prepared.” This section anchors the strategy in lived experience: the moment intelligence, supplies, and timing replaced shame and improvisation.
🧘 Part XII — Integration
End the inner war (consciousness + regulation) and apply outer strategy (systems + timing). The highest victory is the war you no longer have to fight.
- Inner coherence makes strategy easier.
- Outer strategy protects coherence.
- Together, they create escape velocity.
🏁 Part XIII — Closing Challenge
Your “hundred battles advantage” is not grit — it’s preparation. Two lists. One decision.
1) Enemy Tactics (List Yours)
- What scripts show up?
- What times are dangerous?
- What emotions are the doorway?
- What terrain makes relapse easy?
2) Capital Deposits (Choose One Today)
- Sleep deposit
- Nutrition deposit
- Connection deposit
- Environment deposit
- Spiritual meaning deposit
Final line: Know yourself. Know the enemy. And you won’t fear the next hundred battles — because you won’t be fighting blind.
Victory doesn’t come from fighting harder — it comes from clarity, preparation, and choosing the right terrain.
⚔️ The Art of War — Sun Tzu (Complete Edition)
A modern English translation with annotations — not just military strategy, but a timeless guide to clear thinking, wise decision-making, and winning intelligently when life gets hard.
This complete edition, translated into modern English and enriched with annotations and analyses, is designed to make the masterpiece accessible and relevant in today’s world.
Resources to Pair With Episode 35
If Episode 35 is your battlefield map, these are the core manuals that deepen your strategy — assessments, phases, pillars, and recovery capital.
and build your personal field guide.
The 12 Strategic Recovery Assessments™
Replace guessing with data: nervous system, brain/mood type, stress load, recovery capital, purpose, and more.
Open EpisodeThe 5 Phases of Strategic Recovery™
Timing wins wars: preparation, detox, repair, rewire, transcend — do the right thing in the right phase.
Open EpisodeThe 5 Pillars of Strategic Recovery™
Biochemical, psychological, social, environmental, spiritual — align the pillars and the war gets easier.
Open EpisodeRecovery Capital: Inner & Outer Resources
Everything is a deposit or withdrawal. Build breadth + depth so recovery holds under pressure.
Open EpisodeStrategic note: The fastest path isn’t fighting cravings harder — it’s building a life where cravings lose their terrain advantage.
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